So, you’ve decided to take the plunge and move in together? Moving in with your partner can be an exciting time, but it can also be a little nerve-wracking. You begin to question whether you’ll get on each other’s nerves, whether you’ll still be able to wear your favourite pyjamas, and whether arguments over the washing up will spell the end of your relationship. Niggling doubts aside, you’ll have enough to think about with finding a new place and making moving arrangements. The best way to ensure that your move goes without a hitch is to be organised, positive and communicative. Here are some tips to help you prepare for the big move.
Focus on the Benefits
Besides from being a big step in the right direction for your relationship, moving in with your partner can come with a whole host of other benefits. First and foremost, you’re likely to save a whole lot of money. From being able to split rent and bills to sharing your food shop, moving in together is a great opportunity from a financial perspective, which may give you the opportunity to start some savings together. On top of that, you’ll save time and money in travelling to see one another. Living with your partner is like living with your best friend in many ways – you’ll always have someone there when you want to have a chat, watch a movie or cook a meal.
Packing and Moving
Before you begin to pack all your things, it’s a good idea to check what items you might be doubling up on. For example, it’s unlikely that you’ll need two microwaves, so decide together whose is newer or better and opt to just keep that one and sell the other. If there are other items which you don’t see eye-to-eye on, a little compromise and some gentle persuasion goes a long way towards getting your way. As you’ll have both of your belongings in one bedroom, it’s also a good time to throw out all of those unused items from your wardrobe to make a little space. In addition, it’s a great idea to get a removals service booked in, as this will save a whole lot of stress and arguments when it comes to the big day. If you’re house moving in Swansea there are specialists available who can do all the hard work for you and ease the strain of the move on your relationship.
Make a Financial Plan
When you move in together, you will become far more financially tied than you were previously. This is why it’s a good idea to set up a joint bank account, where you can deposit equal amounts each month. From this, you can set up your direct debit for rent and also do all of your joint supermarket shops. This will eliminate any petty arguments over who bought the last loo roll and who owes who £2.59 from the last shop.
If you’re making the big move with your partner, stay organised and remember to focus on the bigger picture for a smooth and stress-free transfer.
